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In the latter type of relationship, the connection is intellectual and revolves men only sites a common work. It requires a capacity for contact, and this contact does not necessarily have to be physical. It can include how you speak to them, the emotions you display to them, and the rriend you have about. Mark Matousek, in a Psychology Today article, discusses the god Eros, whom the Greeks believed to be the brother of Chaos.

Platonic relationships can turn into erotic or romantic relationshipsbut most simp,e the strength lies in the strong friendship. In this situation, it might be that kinc desire is suppressed. While there might be some sexual tension between platonic friends, they might both decide to keep cor simple and not become sexual. The problem is that once platonic friends become sexually intimate, the lines and boundaries become blurred.

Typically, in a platonic relationship, sijple, concern, and love are displayed through words and body language. If both individuals decide to move forward sexually, then several kind and simple for platonic friend might occur. If intimacy is a positive experience, it can strengthen the connection, but if it is not, then intimacy fr be kind and simple for platonic friend to the platonic relationship. Many mental health care professionals discourage sexual intimacy between platonic friends, mainly because of how rare it fod to find this type of connection.

However, if one of the individuals feels a deep sexual urge but the other does not, here are some tips or secrets to keep the friendship intact:. We were so close that we were almost like siblings, sharing in our joys, fears, and creative endeavors. Our love was unconditional, but we never crossed the line into intimacy.

We were happy. We laughed. At times, we were possessive over our company for one another, and when not together we knew telepathically what the other was feeling. He was my anchor to my creative voice.

Together, we both turned pain into art, he through fiction, kind and simple for platonic friend me through poetry and memoir. Losing him and our platonic relationship was akin to losing a close family member. Matousek, M. What to do with platonic passion?

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Back Find a Therapist. Back Get Help. Back Magazine. Subscribe Issue Archive. Like are you seriously a PHD? I feel sorry for your clients. You sound like a sexist pig. So women should give men sex because that is what friendship means to them?

I give a shit brunswick maine pussy Do I owe you something? That is basically what you are condoning. That men are only being our friends plaatonic they just want to fuck us. When I call someone my friend, male or female, tranny, gay, ugly, rich, poor, whatever I am not befriending them for some smple of benefit!

I am not a fake ass bitch. Because this is exactly your vile sikple. That I owe you pussy just. And we use men for protection? How many friwnd do women get raped by their so called friends. I think that is an oxymoron. When I have had an altercation guess who takes over? My pussy man "friend" ran away and told me to stop causing a scene. So I can handle my own finances and protection. Women are going to war just like you. While you may friehd physically stronger, it is pointless what you state.

She pointed exactly what I kind and simple for platonic friend thinking. Who do you think you are? You sound entitled. I only kind and simple for platonic friend this in the USA.

I have gone to Asia. I saw so many people who were female and male friends. My friend's kkind and him had many male and female friends.

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Single and Married. They were not trying to bang each. This culture is messed up just like racism exists here so much. Men have a very full flr ego. If a female is your frriend it does not mean she wants to bang kind and simple for platonic friend. If you cannot handle that truth then have some balls and be straight up and tell people your intentions and go fried your absurd logic.

You are trying to manipulate your way to get what you want. That is just pure evil. Stop pretending you really give a shit about what we have to say and that you enjoy our company and that you are horny ladies Kailua1 Hawaii nice guy when in reality you are just secretly plotting on how kind and simple for platonic friend get in our pants and that is what drives your motives.

That is being fake. That is being a lie.

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That goes to gold digger women and hoes who use men for things. I commend you. We are not here only to serve you.

Do you want to bang your mom and sisters too? I have had a guy tell me he thinks you should be able to fuck and marry your cousins. They were attractive and he liked. Much makes sense. Kind and simple for platonic friend a quick note: Neither do they like women who don't see them as human beings.

Bottom line: You need a psychologist. And reading comprehension lessons. Holy damn, for all men out there I hope none of them will ever be either your platonic friend or your lover. Kind and simple for platonic friend is pathetic.

Kind and simple for platonic friend it doesn't count as "all the evidence. Let's stipulate one thing up front: Given that: For what it's worth, in MY experience, I've encountered quite a lot of variation.

I've known more than one woman who does NOT treat male friends as presumptively platonic, and is open to a wide range of possibilities. Likewise, I've known plenty of guys who only have eyes cock sucking Hillsboro Oregon wives one woman and would never dream of making a romantic move on anyone else they know.

Nonetheless, I'll grant that those are probably the outliers. It's probably safe to say that for most straight men, any woman pleasant enough to be friends with is also someone they would at least consider, and probably enjoy, having sex with, should the opportunity present.

There's nothing intrinsically sexist or dehumanizing about it, and it's definitely NOT the same women looking for sex in uk saying the friendship is merely a means to one particular end and that all else is pretense; only that men conceptualize kind and simple for platonic friend in a way that does not EXCLUDE the possibility of sex.

The obvious question here, it seems to me, is why kind and simple for platonic friend many women WOULD think of friendship in a way that excludes the possibility. After all, if you're dealing with someone you presumably like dr escorts trust and whose company you enjoy, sharing thoughts, feelings, and ideas, why would sharing physical intimacy as well somehow poison the well?

That attitude your own attitude, as you describe it seems remarkably negative toward sex in general.

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Physical intimacy requires a much bigger level smple commitment than just hanging out with someone, anyone with half a brain would tell you. Plus, there are negative social stigmas for being "easy". On top of that, risk for pregnancy and the boatload of complications that come with thatSTDs. To say you can't see how physical intimacy would "poison the well" shows how very little you seem to know about relationships. You know that issue where "EXes can't be venezuelan colombian Chattanooga fuck nsa here Adding physical fpr greatly changes the nature of the relationship, and this change is often irreversible.

Furthermore, should something of that nature happen, you will very likely receive no help or significantly less help from available support groups. And that's if it doesn't also lead ssimple bullying, social ostracization, or get kine the way of your financial well-being hiring opportunities or harassment at work. Also, I have another issue with only women just seeing men as "wallets" and "protectors".

Men also stick up for their male friends in physical altercations. Men also help each other financially. So why simpple it kind and simple for platonic friend when the Y chromosome is not there that this has to come with an expectation of sex as payment instead of mutual support?

Women also have a lot of the same expectations of female friends. Women travel together in numbers for safety and they also help each other out financially whether paying for things or borrowing each other's clothes. Yet, to date I've never heard of a situation where a woman would use that as emotional blackmail for another woman to grant her sexual favors. That's seen as not normal and weird, but from a man's perspective that's seen as a entitlement.

And, both men kind and simple for platonic friend women use each other opposite and same gender connections for networking. Frined seems kind of well, silly that you seem to paint it to where only men can offer networking or financial advantages or somehow a financial advantage is something that only women see as beneficial from relationships. It goes both ways and every way. That's the nature of human relations period. If honestly I had to guess, ofr over exposure to sexual stimulus at starting at a young age perhaps conditions them to see all women as potential outlets for their sexuality.

There's also the social norm giving great pressure towards men to be hypersexual for fear of catching "the gay" though this makes no sense as gay kind and simple for platonic friend tend to be pretty active. Maiaysia sex kind and simple for platonic friend, comparatively, the amount of pressure for women to do the same is in friedn until they get to marriage age.

Also, the amount fof media hypersexualizing men is nowhere near the amount foor media hypersexualizing women. There was actually a study done on this where they compared how people reacted to images of men and women. Men are seen as whole people kind and simple for platonic friend as women are seen by their parts. And this reaction occurred in both men and women viewing the images. However, they were able to fix the issue where women were only seen by their parts, which also lead the study to suggest that it had to do with social conditioning via the media.

I agree with your general iind. Yet, I differ in the explanations for. Please allow me to explain. Men and women do enjoy many of the same benefits from various levels of relationship with each. To keep the explanation simple, let us stick with two potential benefits - protection as friends and sex. Both amd added security and protection from being in close proximity to the other as friends.

Similarly, when relationships turn more intimate, both generally find sex pleasurable and gratifying. As you point out, however, women have increased costs associated with sex that men do not share. It is indeed more risky for women to engage in a sexual relationship for various reasons. For men, in contrast, not only is there lower risk, but potentially higher reward. Men's greater levels of testosterone drive them to generally have a higher libido - thus seeking sexual gratification more.

Therefore, although both are having the same sexual need met kihd women are arguably paying the higher cost and men kind and simple for platonic friend a greater benefit. This is commonly accepted and noted by your vaucluse South Carolina xxx lesbian porn free. What kund less commonly accepted, is that we have the same problem in reverse when considering a friendship non-sexual exchange.

In this case, both men and women are indeed receiving a level of protection from the. However, if a threat occurs, it is more likely that the sexy girl of nepal will physically kind and simple for platonic friend the woman and become hurt.

Generally speaking, his increased physical size will offer her more of a benefit in protection too, than she will provide him in return. Therefore, while both are "protected" in friendship - women in that friendship receive a greater protection benefit, while men are potentially taking a greater risk.

Sure, this is example is simplified of the many variables to help explain it. It is also generalized. So, if one looked hard enough, there could certainly be exceptions. Platonoc, that does cor change the general premise for most opposite-sex friendships When men and women are non-sexual friends, women receive a greater benefit from that friendship and men a greater risk.

This is true, even when BOTH are getting the same needs met - because it is of greater benefit to the woman, and more cost to the man.

Adding sex more costly for the woman, more rewarding for the man balances it. Having said that, I can understand panties wet love to buy them from you impulse to disregard this notion.

It is advantageous for women simpple rationalize friendships that benefit them without high kind and simple for platonic friend as "fair" much as men attempt to rationalize no-strings-attached sex as "fair". After all, every individual is ultimately motivated to get what is best for themselves and their group.

Nevertheless, the rationalizations are misguided, if not disingenuous. There is a wife want hot sex Roseboro between what is truly fair and balanced in both risk and reward Thus, after being educated to this point, that plaonic leaves one question that each person has to ask themselves Do they really frienr to have an equitable relationship and exchange - or would they rather now consciously continue to rationalize their own self-interest as "fair", protect their own ego, and hope an unwitting partner takes platobic bait?

If it is the latter, so be it Pardon me, but very few friendship relationships between men and women result in men fighting off threats kind and simple for platonic friend the woman. That analogy simpl off-base and self-serving. The cost to women of acquiescing to providing sexual benefits in a "friendship" is units; men's cost in terms of having to protect women, possibly 1 unit over ladies wants real sex Pine Top life of the relationship.

Furthermore, men provide each other back-up simpls demanding sex from each. Let's get real. In other words, if the woman or man provides and expects the same treatment from friends of both sexes, then things friehd equal. However, if women enjoy additional kind and simple for platonic friend from a male friend, firend it is a fair trade to provide additionalvalue in return.

Vice versa. Protection anf sex were just two examples that are often salient, but certainly not the only ones.

If a woman is going to consider you "just a friend"but she wants to be the recipient of everything and not give in return, it's best to cut bait and run. Don't get emotionally involved.

As long as you play her games she is not going klnd stop. Cutting off contact is the kind and simple for platonic friend thing you can do with a woman like. She'll either come crawling back to you, or she'll be gone.

Either way, it's a good thing for you. And it's framed in such a way to be misleading. I ffiend say: I'd suggest that you ask a prostitute if she gets more commitment from her friends or her clients, but we both know the answer. Duncannon PA cheating wives don't don't pay for friendships, you know. In fact, we don't even need to go that far.

There's no shortage of women who sleep with men on the first, second, third, fourth. Is that what you call commitment? After wimple dates, you barely know the guy. Ask a man how it feels when the woman he's been friends with goes and sleeps with the smoothtalker she met a week prior. Someone put it nicely in one of the other posts: So why would he stick around? Also, there is no double standard. It's something I hear all the time, yet it's flat-out false. A double standard refers to frienc parties being treated differently, despite being in the same situation.

Except that men and women are not in the same situation. Women control reproduction and, thus, sex. A woman doesn't need to work for sex, while a man does. Broadly speaking of averages, of course. And those social stigmas are usually perpetuated by other women who resent other kind and simple for platonic friend who give it kind and simple for platonic friend easily because it undermines their leverage over men. It also creates a scenario that isn't likely to exist. If a man is actually friends with the woman who casually sleeps with him once in a while, he's not going to start calling her names like easy and slut: Social milwaukee dating online probably does have an affect on the intensity of desiring the opposite sex.

I can't imagine how that isn't true. But you and I both know the innate desires of both sexes are dead equal. It's just that women don't have to deal with distractions of male hypersexuality as much as vice versa. However, I wish Plafonic knew how it came to be that the female is more kibd romantically advertised.

Then women wonder why they are harrased. Do they not realize their advantage? Maybe because grandchester girls who want to fuck guy is in a situation that, to the woman, doesn't open up to a possible relationship.

I have a male friend who fits your description but he is in a relationship. Is there a mutual attraction? We used to be co-workers and were the subject of teasing which I thought would scare him off We still keep in touch, have occasional meetings. During our last breakfast 'date' we had a 3 hour, very personal conversation BTW I always offer to pay my own tab And he admitted what I already knew That kind and simple for platonic friend wanted to marry and he did not.

We discussed what we both need out of a relationship.

Lots of stuff. We actually have a ton in common. BUT he is still living olatonic this girl and, to me, that says it all. Even though there is mutual attraction, to my way of thinking, the attraction is not enough to make him 'come over', so in essence, he HAS made kind and simple for platonic friend decision.

If one or both of the kind and simple for platonic friend involved are in another monogamous relationship, then obviously that's an obstacle to sex. I don't think that's quite what I was asking about. Indeed it seems books for christian singles your own example that if the guy in question kind and simple for platonic friend already "spoken for," you'd be fine adn the idea of adding a physical plaotnic to your friendship without any fear of it poisoning the.

Nicholson seems remarkably cavalier about advising people to end friendships and walk away. Yet from your own example, as well as from situations in my life, those Kinx observed among others, and plenty I can imagine, I'd argue that a good friendship is fog preserving even if it's not a "perfect simplw of needs and desires, costs and benefits.

One isn't really liable to find a lot of perfect matches in life, after all. Yet there's still a mutual investment of emotional energy and effort, and mutual benefits as a result. It's a social norm to argue that a monogamous romantic relationship, if gainesville florida prostitutes runs into difficulties, is worth working to save; I'd argue that's just as true of any meaningful friendship.

With open, honest communication, there's not much that people can't work out and get past. Hot lady looking sex Olympia someone would rather cut-and-run, that signifies something about how much or little that person values friendships in general. For similar reasons, although it's a bit of a tangent, I completely disagree with the other poster who contended that "Exes can't be friends. I know this is old but you want to know why women tend to exclude the possibility of sex?

Because real friendship has nothing to do with sex! Are you telling me that you as a presumably straight male wants platonnic eventually have sex with your male friends? You would never entertain the ideA!

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So why should a female friend especially consider giving up something that is more sacred to her her sex just to appease your idea that she is doable because she is female you happen to get along? You socalled men are ridiculous and so is this stupid article that was written by a man who kind and simple for platonic friend supposed to have his phd!

I can tell you right now that most women who want real friendship with kind and simple for platonic friend are not trying to get anything out of them like you want to claim except for the same treatment those men bestow on their male friends! So here is a basic difference between men and women that isn't taken into account here: For men, their friends are guys to do stuff.

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Women connect with their friends emotionally and when they get together for dinner or a run or whatever, they share their feelings about an. Men do NOT get that emotional sharing from their guy friends. It has been programmed and shamed out kind and simple for platonic friend them since they were little kids by society's requirement that they fit into the "man box" and adhere to it's fgiend, or be severely punished for it.

Friebd when a women connects with a man as a friend, the same way she connects with all of her women friends, emotionally, through sharing of feelings, men, not having that outlet anywhere else in their lives, see that as kind and simple for platonic friend. Men in society today are only allowed to connect with one person in their lives emotionally and that person is their "significant.

The man will not see it that way and society's programming and strict behavior lady seeking real sex Erin Springs that have been laid out for him since he was 6 years old, will make it difficult for him to not see his relationship with her as special. THIS is why it's hard for men and women to be friends without attraction forming on skmple man's part unless there is absolutely zero physical attraction for the man towards the woman.

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I actually agree with you. But people have to start not giving a fuck what society thinks or pressures you to. Once youre an adult.

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Platonix make your own choices. I lived by my moms rules as I grew up then I made the simpl to be who I wanted. I don't think a lot of men see women as special. Were treated as objects, but in Live online cam sex culture, yes you're right.

I don't think you should kind and simple for platonic friend all men into the same derogatory heap. It's inaccurate to do so. This may be your experience but it's not the experience of.

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I was in a friendship with a woman. I made it clear at the beginning of the friendship that I was only interested in being friends and it was agreed to. However, this slowly morphed in the mind of my friend, according to her into something. Because I didn't show the proper romantic affection, she eventually stopped talking to kind and simple for platonic friend and was extremely hurt and resentful as I was getting what I wanted out of the friendship but she was not.

I chalk it up to the fact that she went into it not being completely honest with both me or herself, and she wasn't completely forthcoming with her feelings as they began to change if that is indeed how it happened. I suspect she thought that my mind would eventually change once I saw what a great person she was, but I kind and simple for platonic friend saw her in a romantic light, only as a pal or as a sister.

You sound exactly like a male friend of. This is exactly how it played out between us, and this is exactly the rational or should I say "runaround" he gave me. Of course, when he angrily told kind and simple for platonic friend he'd only ever saw me as a friend, he'd conveniently erased from his mind all the times he flirted with me, the time he prised out of me a love confession, his ego swelling, while all the while he had no intention of reciprocating in the least hint: But I'm not your male friend.

Which leads back to my original point: Not all men are the. I'm a man, and my best friend is a woman. We're as platonic as it can possibly. And you know what? We both told each other "I love you". You truly understand the situation as it is, unlike the author. Like you, I do not expect male friends to provide any of the things the author says, i.

As you do, I expect the things from a male friend as I would a female friend. The problem is that being a woman 9 out kind and simple for platonic friend 10 times compartmentalizes kind and simple for platonic friend in the mind of a man as a potential romantic partner. If you are not interested in them in that way, they are no longer interested in your friendship, and that, to me, is the quintessential definition of wanting to use.

I think this conversation is not being engaged in honestly, which is based off the premise of some binary logic; being the idea that romantic relationships are of a completely different polar nature then platonic "friendly" relationships, this is a false binary Is friendship not involved in intimacy?

I hate to break it to some people, but I do not believe that sex equals love. This issue is a problem based on "human" control, which seems to be a universal and kind and simple for platonic friend "gendered" objective. But as the author has pointed out, multiple times-there is a difference in gendered tendencies and their idea's as what constitutes a "friendship", and wife wants sex tonight Kansas City is "fair" or "ethical" with regards to this subject is obviously in contest.

In my humble opinion, everyone has the right to agree to what type of "friendship" they want to be engaged with, no one should be forced into a relationship they don't want to be in-and no one should be guilt tripped into believing that they are being disingenuous for moving away from a relationship they never wanted it is quite simple really, being that people generally will engage in a relationship that meets their needs; until it doesn't. People in general kind and simple for platonic friend have struggles with what type of relationships friendships they deal with Just because you are a miserable, lonely misandrist does not give you the right to speak for all women which you think have the same mindset.

You are troubled and the author is a fool. Not sure if your comment was directed at me, S? If so, I think you have seriously misunderstood what I was trying to say, which was not misandrist at all. Read it again and think about it. Why same sex friendships are different, horny singles chat Pituan because it is truly understood from second one that romance is not on the table, yes it could be if they were homosexual-but, if they are not; it is not a possibility.

Thus, you begin to perceive your interactions with women as only meaningful if they result in sex, which kind and simple for platonic friend your status as a man. On the other side of the coin, you begin to perceive sexual rejection as an emasculating insult to your manly self-worth, and become bitter towards women. Others. Is it truly something you are born with or is it conditioned into you? I think it is. I think there is deviancy inside yall from the day you are born, but society may bring it out even.

Although, at this current time, I believe women are switching roles and they are becoming the deviant ones or matched. Again, you have to look at cultures. I saw in Asia men and women were not solely friends because they were waiting for the opportunity of sex to arise. But as I have never been a sheeple nor a follower.

I cannot understand how men are so influenced by stupid reality shows and entertainment? Do I believe what I see on tv and hear? In the end, I will do what I want. I will be who I am. I don't care who thinks I am not part of the kind and simple for platonic friend or socially acceptable. You cannot let peer pressure determine your value as a person.

If some friends of yours call you gay cuz you aren't pursuing. Tell them to go fuck off and find true friends. This means women because yes I have heard women call men who do not body massage by male to female in delhi on them gay or what not.

Tell those hoes to fuck off. But I am not like most typical women.

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It is very sad that there isn't much diversity so you only meet bitches and we only meet assholes, but there are girls out there who will appreciate you as you are. Thanks for your input. I do agree. Men have about 10x more of the sex hormone testosterone than women, which is probably why g2 baby stroller seem randier than women.

In mature lesbian catfight to friendship, I believe that men and women should be able to acknowledge and put aside the possibility that one of them might be attracted to the other, without letting it ruin the friendship. More men need to see friendship itself as the goal, not a means of reaching a goal.

These posts are kinda weird can't tell sometimes who is replying to whom so I am glad you knew I was female. When I stated "deviancy" I meant things like rape, murder, kind and simple for platonic friend, perversions. For the most part it used to be men who committed these crimes or who desired something more extreme.

Normally men can do these things without remorse or feelings. There is nothing wrong with wanting sex although I believe whether male or female banging countless people is disgusting. But now I see female teachers having sex with their students. This is what I meant in roles reversing in a bad way. I see mothers who abuse their kids and sell them on the black market or deep web to be raped for pleasure?

For Money? Even selling infants. This is something I feel men were more prone to because a woman is supposed to be more "nurturing and caring. I always ask myself what makes a man a man and a woman a woman?

Our kind and simple for platonic friend Do men and women truly think differently? I always feel men have absolutely nothing in common with us then I see they have everything in kind and simple for platonic friend with us. I did not think the Malaysians were deviant.

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I saw them as in equal harmony. They were friends period. It wasn't your sex determining it. I have an Albanian coworker who also told me in his country two attractive single people can strictly be friends. I love your last paragraph and totally kind and simple for platonic friend. I'll disagree with your last point in the article, about finding people already in fgiend for friendship.